Spank v. slap with one’s open hand or a flat object, especially on the buttocks as a punishment. n. a slap or series of slaps of this type.
How can something that’s painful be enjoyable? Create sexual satisfaction?
Erotic pain is a very hard thing to describe and quantify. In the words of Jay Wiseman:
‘One of the great fallacies is that people vary in their pain threshold. Medical research has proven that all persons begin to feel pain at almost exactly the same degree of stimulation. What is true is that people vary a great deal in how they react to painful stimuli …’
Whenever I read about spanking in the mainstream (outside of an erotic book or BDSM instructional text, basically) it’s invariably portrayed as something that’s met out as a unenjoyable punishment. Indeed, the idea that someone would willing submit to a spanking for the purposes of pleasure alone is confusing to a lot of people. Equally, the notion that there are those who like to inflict pain (responsibly) can be a difficult concept for some to get their heads around. Continue reading