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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Soft limits, hard limits, personal boundaries, personal fears. It doesn’t matter if we’re kinky or vanilla, every single one of us has things that we’re comfortable and not comfortable doing sexually; lines that we don’t want crossed, things that we adore doing. And it’s most certainly the case that one person’s ‘hell no!’ is another&#8230; <a href="/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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<p>Soft limits, hard limits, personal boundaries, personal fears. It doesn’t matter if we’re kinky or vanilla, every single one of us has things that we’re comfortable and not comfortable doing sexually; lines that we don’t want crossed, things that we adore doing. And it’s most certainly the case that one person’s ‘hell no!’ is another person’s ‘hell yes!’ That’s a good thing. If we were all the same, life and sex would be terribly boring. What intrigues me, however, is how our comfort levels and perceptions of what we do and don’t like, can and can’t tolerate, can – and often do – change over time.</p>
<p>Now, before I go any further with this train of thought, I’d just like to make it really, really clear that hard limits should always, ALWAYS be respected. No exceptions. They are not there to be pushed. They are not there to be ‘broken though’. A hard limit is a prohibition, a definite no-no. End of story. And a hard limit remains so until such time as the person whose limit it is chooses <em>of their own volition and without coercion </em>for it not to be.</p>
<p>Public service announcement out of the way, let’s continue.</p>
<p>One of things that I am coming to realise the longer I explore my sexuality is that the devil is very much in the detail. And the gulf between the aforementioned ‘hell yes!’ and my safeword is actually much wider than I originally thought. Not because I’ve been sloppy in articulating what I’m okay with and what I’m not or because I’m getting kinkier (I don’t think I am) but because identifying the things that arouse is a bit like going off to explore the jungle. You take your map with you and it defines the terrain you’re going to cover, but the route you follow to your destination often ends up revealing a multitude of alternate trails and tracks that you just have to go back and explore. And on occasion, those offshoots lead you to places you originally sought to avoid.<span id="more-6950"></span></p>
<p>Some time back, I discovered that I had an aversion to prickly sensations, thanks to that devilish little device, <a title="The Wartenberg pinwheel: the sharp edge of sensation play" href="/2012/10/04/the-wartenberg-pinwheel-the-sharp-edge-of-sensation-play/">the Wartenberg Wheel</a>. This instrument isn’t a hard limit for me but holy crap is it something to be endured. For whatever reason, my mind has no problem with the pain generated by the sting of a crop, but it cannot seem to climb on top of the sensation a Wartenberg elicits, even when used very, very lightly. It’ll come as no surprise, then, that my experiences with it led me to believe that sharp things, other than that barely tolerated little terror tool, belonged on my hard limit list. (You should see the performance when I get a splinter and M has to hook it out for me with a needle. You’d think he was hacking my foot off with a rusty axe.)</p>
<p>Then I read something the other week that made me think I need to re-examine my feelings. It was an intensely erotic edgeplay scene from Cherise Sinclair’s latest book <a title="Edge of the Enforcer - Amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/Edge-Enforcer-Doms-Dark-Haven-ebook/dp/B00KBA6PKS/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1401146924&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=edge+of+the+enforcer+by+cherise+sinclair" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><em>Edge of the Enforcer </em></a>between a sadist named deVries and a non-masochistic sub. In a nutshell, said sadist restrains said sub on a kitchen counter using her half-removed jeans, throws a tea towel over her eyes, and then proceeds to utilise the knives in the butcher’s block for something other than cooking.</p>
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<blockquote><p>“I like being called Sir. Master works once in a while.”</p>
<p>“Sir, you wouldn’t really–”</p>
<p>“Shut up, babe.” He touched the point of the knife to her nipple. Just so she could feel the point – not nearly enough to draw blood.</p>
<p>Her pounding pulse jiggled her little breasts, and she was hardly breathing. <em>Nice. Just right.</em></p>
<p>He laid the hilt on her stomach and positioned the hefty bare blade between her breasts. “You planning to move?”</p>
<p>Her no was so low he barely heard it.</p>
<p>“Didn&#8217;t think so. Gonna have some fun now &#8230; Warning, babe, you wriggle and I&#8217;ll amuse myself with the blade instead.”</p></blockquote>
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<p>You get the idea.</p>
<p>As the scene progresses deVries gets more wicked. There’s some light scratching. Some pretty evil head-screwing. And while I wasn’t so sold on the rest of the novel, I read this scene three times in quick succession because something in it was shouting ‘HOT!’ at me very, very loudly; making the kinky part of my brain sit up and go ‘Hmmm’.</p>
<p>I’m still not absolutely sure what it is about it that’s appealed to me so deeply. I’ve read edgeplay scenes involving knives before and, while I’ve appreciated them and the sentiment and psychology behind them – Maren Smith’s <em><a title="Holding Hannah - Amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/Holding-Hannah-Masters-Castle-Maren-ebook/dp/B00DRITL3Y/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1401147007&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=holding+hannah" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Holding Hannah</a>, </em>for example – it’s definitely been a case of <a title="Your Kink Is Not My Kink" href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=YKINMK" target="_blank">YKINMK</a>. Perhaps it’s the delivery, the way the scene is carried out rather than the implement(s) used in it? The way Lindsey, the sub, is blindfolded so crudely? The way she is restrained? Whatever the appeal, I do know that it is making me think very, very hard about what <em>exactly </em>it is I don’t like about the Wartenberg. My current ponderings suggest that my exclusion of ‘sharp things’ during play may have been far too broad. And this is where I come back to my ‘it’s all in the detail’ statement. A prickle is very different to a scratch, just as the thwack of a flogger is very different to the bite of cane. It seems so obvious in hindsight that the two sensations are really quite different beasts and yet I’ve been lumping them together into the same bucket.</p>
<p>It just shows that the brain doesn’t always see what’s obvious.</p>
<p>This isn’t the first time I’ve had such a reaction to a bit of text, either. If you read my post <a title="The Violet Wand Diaries: Part One" href="/2014/02/19/violet-wand-diaries-part-one/"><em>The Violet Wand Diaries: Part One</em></a>, you’ll know that my curiosity around electrical play sparked off (sorry, couldn’t help myself) in much the same way. It just goes to show that context and delivery have a huge role to how we perceive various kinks.</p>
<p>Even more interestingly, M, who, like me, doesn’t tend towards edgeplay, read this scene at my request – after initially taking a step backwards at my pre-read CliffsNotes overview – and had a very similar reaction to it, albeit from a Top rather than a bottom perspective. Clearly, something in what is described is calling out to both of us, perhaps tapping into an undercurrent in our play that we’re both unaware of. Go figure. He’s not a sadist. I’m not keen on sharp things. And yet we both read a scene involving both and go ‘ooh!’</p>
<p>I sense a boundary shift on the horizon.</p>
<p>*Since writing this post, I have been keeping an eye on the reviews for <a title="Edge of the Enforcer - Amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/Edge-Enforcer-Doms-Dark-Haven-ebook/dp/B00KBA6PKS/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1401146924&amp;sr=1-1&amp;keywords=edge+of+the+enforcer+by+cherise+sinclair" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><em>Edge of the Enforcer </em></a>on Amazon and Goodreads and am intrigued to see just how many people have responded the same way I did to the play in it given that it has a relatively mainstream readership. In the words of one reviewer:</p>
<p>“I have to admit, I&#8217;ve never been into edge play, but the mindfvck [sic] of the knife play scene was seriously steamy.”</p>
<p>You can read various the various reviews <a title="Goodreads - Edge of the Enforcer" href="http://www.goodreads.com/book/show/17907035-edge-of-the-enforcer" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">here</a> (Goodreads) and <a title="Amazon - Edge of the Enforcer" href="http://www.amazon.com/Edge-Enforcer-Doms-Dark-Haven-ebook/dp/B00KBA6PKS" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">here</a> (Amazon).</p>
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<p>At the risk of sounding like an over-excited two-year-old &#8230; <strong>WAHOO!!!!</strong> <a title="A Princess Bound: Naughty Fairy Tales for Women" href="http://www.amazon.com/Princess-Bound-Naughty-Fairy-Tales/dp/1627780351/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&amp;n=283155&amp;s=books" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><em>A Princess Bound</em></a> features my original fairy story <em>Thorn King </em>and its inclusion in this anthology of kinky, sexy tales marks a serious writing milestone for me. Why? Because it&#8217;s the very first time a work of mine has appeared in print. I&#8217;ll just say that there <i>may</i> have been some very (very) bad dancing around the house when editor Kristina Wright emailed to let me know <a title="A Princess Bound: Naughty Fairy Tales for Women" href="http://www.amazon.com/Princess-Bound-Naughty-Fairy-Tales/dp/1627780351/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&amp;n=283155&amp;s=books" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><em>A Princess Bound</em></a><em> </em>had been released early by the uber-efficient Cleis and you should all be extremely grateful you didn&#8217;t have to witness it.</p>
<p>For those who have read the <a title="Five-minute erotica: Table Manners" href="/2013/01/30/five-minute-erotica-table-manners/" target="_blank">Five-minute Erotica</a> pieces I&#8217;ve posted here on Chintz, it should come as no surprise that my contribution to <a title="A Princess Bound: Naughty Fairy Tales for Women" href="http://www.amazon.com/Princess-Bound-Naughty-Fairy-Tales/dp/1627780351/ref=dp_return_1?ie=UTF8&amp;n=283155&amp;s=books" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><em>A Princess Bound</em></a><i>,</i> <em>Thorn King, </em>is, well, a little bit dark and, of course, a little bit kinky. Be warned: the hero of the piece is unlike any fairy king you&#8217;ve ever met before &#8230;<span id="more-6810"></span></p>
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<blockquote><p><strong style="font-size: 14px; line-height: 1.5em;">Once Upon a Bedtime</strong></p>
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<p>Why is it that Goldilocks climbed into so many beds? Face it, fairy tales have always been kinky—from beautiful queens tied up in knots to the wolf that makes Red Riding Hood blush. In this distinctive collection of racy romances, Kristina Wright seduces us with tales that are playful, supernaturally sensual and very, very naughty. The beauty in “The Seven Ravens,” by Ariel Graham, uses a series of magic keys to finally unlock the door to her secret wish. A lonely maiden sneaks into the Winter Ball in Valerie Alexander’s “Mine Until Dawn,” and binds her new love in a devastatingly erotic story of dominance. A brawny beast of a man sweeps an aristocrat off her feet and right into his bed in “Black of Knight,” by Victoria Blisse. Submit to the spell of <em>A Princess Bound</em>.</p></blockquote>
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<p>Tickle your fancy? Click on the following links to purchase a copy:</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>“What is hidden in your life? Or what would you like to hide? Or maybe you have found a treasure that was hidden for some time? Or you would like to find a treasure? Sometimes things are hidden in plain sight…” ) The prompt for this week’s Wicked Wednesday is both intriguing and thought-provoking –&#8230; <a href="/2014/03/12/wicked-wednesday-selective-revelations/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>“What is hidden in your life? Or what would you like to hide? Or maybe you have found a treasure that was hidden for some time? Or you would like to find a treasure? Sometimes things are hidden in plain sight…”</p></blockquote>
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<p>The prompt for this week’s Wicked Wednesday is both intriguing and thought-provoking – not least because for someone like me, who blogs about sex and erotica, it raises a number of interesting questions about what I reveal and what I keep hidden from people who know me in ‘real life’.</p>
<p>I like to think that I am a fundamentally honest person. Bluntly, I’m just not that keen on keeping secrets or holding back the real ‘me’. (As I’ve gotten older, I’ve realised that life is way too short to pretend to be someone you’re not or deny yourself the things that you find pleasurable.) It took me a long time to get to this point and I don’t want to go backwards. That said, there is an inevitable rub that comes when I have to balance my ‘me-ness’ with mainstream society. Because like it or not, there is still a lot of judgement and stigma around those of us who talk openly and honestly about sex.<span id="more-6651"></span></p>
<p>If you’re a regular Chintz reader, you’ll be well aware that I:</p>
<p>1)   Like erotic books;</p>
<p>2)   Enjoy the hell out of sex toys;</p>
<p>3)   Love to write (darkish) smut; and</p>
<p>4)   Have a penchant for kink.</p>
<p>My immediate family – a very important group of people in my life, obviously – know about all four of these things. They&#8217;re aware of my blog and even read it on occasion. Most of my close friends and even some ex-colleagues know about Chintz, too. They’ve all – to date – been super supportive of my endeavours, even if they don’t always agree with or understand why I might write about the things I do. (Interestingly, I had an hour-long debate with a very close non-kinky friend the other week about the group <a title="Pain Positive" href="/2013/10/04/pain-positive/"><i>Pain Positive</i> post from last October</a>. Her perceptions of masochism and sadism are very different to mine, but even though we couldn’t agree with each other’s opinions, we could talk about our thoughts rationally. I didn’t have to hide anything from her. More to the point, I didn’t want to.) Then there are the friends who have been generous enough to volunteer their time to test various items out for the <a title="Toy Box" href="/category/toy-box/">Chintz Toy Box</a>. Again, nothing hidden between us.</p>
<p>But now I find myself in a new space. I’ve moved to a different country, to a small town, to an area unfamiliar to me. I’m making new friends. To them, I am a blank canvas and they are slowly forming an opinion of exactly who Jane is. For the first time in a long time, I am being very careful about how much I reveal about myself. (Funnily enough, my dad asked me just last night whether I’d found any new, local, acquaintances to test sex toys out for me, to which I replied “God, no! I don’t think we’ve reached that level yet!”)</p>
<p>It’s hard – really hard – to hold myself in check at times. I’m a big girl and, frankly, strong enough to defend myself, my opinions and my life choices to others. My children, who are oblivious to the chintzy curtains and all that goes on behind them, on the other hand, are not. And I don’t ever want my choices to adversely affect them because someone hasn&#8217;t taken the time to understand me as a whole.</p>
<p>My real life revelations at this point in time are thus selective. Censored (Urgh! I hate that word!). But I remain ever hopeful that they won’t remain so.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Image: Christmas Fairy. (Me, wearing my halo, whilst sitting in a Pohutukawa – also known as the ‘New Zealand Christmas tree’.) This Wicked Wednesday is an unapologetic, sentimental and festive ‘thank you’ – a big one! – to all the amazing people who have made my 2013 so happy and wonderful. Bloggers, writers, readers, fellow&#8230; <a href="/2013/12/24/wicked-wednesday-glad-tidings-2/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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<p><strong>Image:</strong> <i>Christmas Fairy</i>. (Me, wearing my halo, whilst sitting in a Pohutukawa – also known as the ‘New Zealand Christmas tree’.)</p>
<p>This <em>Wicked Wednesday</em> is an unapologetic, sentimental and festive ‘thank you’ – a big one! – to all the amazing people who have made my 2013 so happy and wonderful.</p>
<p>Bloggers, writers, readers, fellow kinksters … There are so many of you that I am pleased and proud to know (both online and in person), and who have been totally selfless in support of me and this little Chintzy corner of the Interweb these past twelve months. To that end, I’d like to embarrass a few of you by specifically calling out your awesomeness.<span id="more-6419"></span></p>
<p>Firstly, <a title="Rebel's Notes" href="http://rebelsnotes.com/" target="_blank">Marie</a>, who runs this fantastic meme and has always encouraged and given me the opportunity to participate in it.</p>
<p>The truly lovely and talented <a title="Tamsin Flowers" href="http://tamsinflowers.com/" target="_blank">Tamsin Flowers</a>. We met over a coffee table at this year’s London Eroticon, and I can honestly say she’s been one of life’s best chance encounters. (It’s not often you find a kindred spirit in smut-writing crime.) Not only that, she’s been a constant source of encouragement and patience. (Read: she&#8217;s put up with me even though I’ve been completely rubbish at delivering … well, <i>anything </i>useful to her these past six months.)</p>
<p><a title="Michael D - Goodreads" href="https://www.goodreads.com/user/show/8368573-michael-dunellen" target="_blank">Michael</a>, who I adore reviewing erotic books with and who never fails to keep me entertained with John Norman <i>Gor</i> analogies. That, and he doesn’t bat an eyelid at my over-the-top book rants.</p>
<p>Author <a title="Natasha Knight" href="http://www.natasha-knight.com/" target="_blank">Natasha Knight</a>. All-round good person and willing to drink cocktails with me on Messenger whilst talking kink.  (I can type ‘nanl exs’ and she still knows what I mean.)</p>
<p>E, who has consistently gone above and beyond the call of duty to help me out with Sinful Sunday pictures (<a title="Sinful Sunday: Hay Field (Wander Series)" href="/chintzcurtain/2013/06/30/sinful-sunday-hay-field-wander-series/">shielded my topless self from unexpected dog walkers in English fields</a>, shooed neighbours away from the front door whilst I’ve lain<a title="Sinful Sunday: Stardust" href="/chintzcurtain/2013/08/18/sinful-sunday-stardust/"> half naked in her sitting room covered in glitter</a>, etc., etc., etc.).</p>
<p><a title="Molly's Daily Kiss" href="http://mollysdailykiss.com/" target="_blank">Molly</a> and <a title="DomSigns" href="https://twitter.com/DomSigns" target="_blank">DomSigns</a>, who have been nothing short of amazing with me and my other half, M. Thank you both for absolutely everything this past year. Your company, your advice, the excursions, and your friendship. I (we!) miss you guys.</p>
<p>And last but certainly not least, my family, who, without exception, have been unflinchingly supportive of my slightly left-of-centre life and blog – and aren’t afraid to own me and what I do. (Although in future, a certain brother might want to wait until his friends don’t have mouthfuls of crisps and beer before nonchalantly asking me ‘how my porn site is going’.)</p>
<p>Merry Christmas and a happy New Year to you all.</p>
<p>Jane<br />
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Image: courtesy of Tech Affair ‘Do you talk during sex? Do you like to be talked to during sex? What do you say or what do you like to hear? Does it excite you or does it turn you off?’ Words. They have the ability to steal the breath more effectively than a cane, settle&#8230; <a href="/2013/08/28/aural-sex/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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<blockquote><p><i>‘Do you talk during sex? Do you like to be talked to during sex? What do you say or what do you like to hear? Does it excite you or does it turn you off?’</i></p></blockquote>
<p>Words. They have the ability to steal the breath more effectively than a cane, settle beneath the skin more deeply than the thud of a flogger, bind and hold us more firmly than any rope.</p>
<p>When I saw that this was the topic prompt for this week’s <a title="Wicked Wednesday" href="http://wickedwednesday.rebelsnotes.com/" target="_blank">Wicked Wednesday</a>, I was thrilled (superb suggestion, <a title="Lord Raven" href="https://twitter.com/LordRaven69" target="_blank">Lord Raven</a>). Why? Well, words are a huge (huge) part of my personal kink.</p>
<p>Sex, for me, is rarely silent. It’s always better when there’s verbal communication going on, because, in my opinion, while our bodies generally give our partners a pretty good idea as to whether we’re enjoying ourselves (or not), the right words have the ability to elevate and texture an exchange in a way that nothing else can. They give the speaker and the listener the opportunity to further engage the senses, to fall more fully into an experience and connect more deeply with one another. Over time, I’ve come to understand that I actually <i>need </i>the verbal element in order to reach the places that I find most satisfying. I don’t mean that I require a constant stream of words and chatter to orgasm. Far from it. Rather, that a few choice words and phrases have the ability to elevate sex or a D/s exchange to a whole other level. Put simply, my brain needs to be engaged for me to be aroused and language plays a massive part in its stimulation.<span id="more-6138"></span></p>
<p>It can’t just be any old dirty talk, mind you; the verbal cues I like are very specific and they all play into other aspects of my sexual personality and kinks. A set of instructions, orders, requirements, quiet threats; a commentary of what I look like in a particularly vulnerable position or perhaps following a perverted set of directions; name-calling. If the words have anything to do with control, objectification and debasement then, yeah, I’m pretty much a puddle of mush in my OH’s hands. There. I said it. I’m not sure why, but it took me a fair amount of time to admit, out loud to him, that explicit language, more specifically, <i>derogatory</i> explicit language, turned me on in a big, big way. That I was interested in far more than the standard ‘I’m going to f*ck you’ fare (which is all well and good but doesn’t really tap into anything for me psychologically). Is it because the things I like him to say would be completely unacceptable in an everyday situation? Maybe. I know that words can induce incredibly strong reactions, even when they’re on paper. (Check out the very unscientific <em><a title="Talk Dirty to Me" href="/chintzcurtain/2012/09/27/talk-dirty-to-me/">Talk Dirty to Me</a></em> experiment I conducted with four ‘vanilla’ readers last September.) Put it this way: it was far easier for me to come out and say ‘I’d like you to hit me with a crop’ than it was to say ‘It turns me on no end when you humiliate and debase me with words’.</p>
<p>It doesn’t work both ways, though. I’m not a talker. I would far rather be spoken to than speak to him during an exchange (although sometimes he insists that I articulate what I am feeling or wanting because he knows that it will add to the feelings of embarrassment). But I love to listen. Oh, man, do I love to listen.</p>
<p>Here is the important and most crucial, point, though. I am only okay with being spoken to in the way I’ve outlined by one person, and one person only. My other half. And <i>only</i> in the context of a sexual or D/s exchange (although, for us, the two are so closely linked they cannot be really be separated). If he, or anyone else called me a ‘whore’ or a ‘slut’ or any of the other words I like to hear in any other situation or context, believe me, you’d see and hear the nuclear explosion all the way from the North Pole. And perhaps that is why it took so long for me to confess the desire to be spoken to in this way. Words are extremely powerful things, but I finally understand that it’s okay to let myself explore, experience and enjoy them with someone I trust to know the difference between their use during sex/play and everyday life.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>This month&#8217;s e[lust] is out! (And can I just say that I&#8217;m beyond thrilled to be one of Molly&#8217;s featured picks for this edition. :-)) &#160; Photo courtesy of Love Hate Sex Cake Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether&#8230; <a href="/2013/08/15/elust-49/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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<h2>~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~</h2>
<p><a href="http://noveltiestoymeetsgirl.com/2013/07/a-pill-for-that.html" target="_blank">A pill for that?</a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.mollena.com/2013/07/mono-poly-class/" target="_blank">When I Get Annoyed, Shit Happens.</a></p>
<p><a href="http://pennysdirtythoughts.com/the-dildo-wars-dildology-doc-johnson-and-sex-toy-testing/" target="_blank">The Dildo Wars- Dildology &amp; Doc Johnson</a></p>
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<h3>~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~</h3>
<p><a href="/chintzcurtain/2013/07/23/sense-sensibility-and-censorship/" target="_blank">Sense, Sensibility and Censorship</a></p>
<p><a href="http://sexualdestinies.blogspot.com/2013/07/triggers-asses-and-subby-places.html" target="_blank">Triggers, Asses and Subby Places.</a></p>
<p><strong>~ Readers Choice from <a title="Sex Bytes, Submit and vote on your favorite sex post" href="http://sexbytes.elustsexblogs.com/" target="_blank">Sexbytes</a> ~</strong></p>
<p><a href="http://sexbytes.elustsexblogs.com/there-is-no-freedom-without-risk-suck-it-up/">There is no Freedom Without Risk</a></p>
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<h4>Blogging</h4>
<p><a href="http://joystjames.wordpress.com/2013/07/23/decisions-decisions/" target="_blank">Decisions, Decisions&#8230;.</a><br />
<a href="http://daydreamreading.com/blog/2013/08/voyeurism-free-adult-blog-host-rant-about-bloggerwordpress.html" target="_blank">Voyeurism Rant About Blogger/WordPress &amp; Host</a></p>
<h4>Thoughts &amp; Advice on Kink &amp; Fetish</h4>
<p><a href="http://krissynovacaine.weebly.com/1/post/2013/07/fifty-shades-of-grey-is-offensive.html" target="_blank">FIFTY SHADES OF GREY IS OFFENSIVE</a><br />
<a href="http://kinketc.com/2013/07/beautiful-rope-work-its-not-as-hard-as-you-might-think/" target="_blank">Beautiful Rope Work &#8211; Easier than you think</a><br />
<a href="http://rebelsnotes.com/2013/07/kinky-assumptions/" target="_blank">Kinky Assumptions</a><br />
<a href="http://kinkandpoly.com/blog/2013/07/i-promised-a-singletail-video/" target="_blank">As I promised&#8230;a singletail video!</a><br />
<a href="http://curvaceousdee.com/2013/07/bootblacking/" target="_blank">Bootblacking</a><br />
<a href="http://www.iamannasky.com/blog/chronic-fatigue-and-bdsm" target="_blank">Chronic Fatigue and BDSM</a><br />
<a href="http://nakedallthetime.com/nsa-bdsm-failure-and-success/" target="_blank">NSA BDSM: Failure and Success</a><br />
<a href="http://www.domme-chronicles.com/2013/07/supporting-your-dominants-dominance.html" target="_blank">Supporting your dominant&#8217;s dominance</a><br />
<a href="http://www.betweenmysheets.com/bdsm-spanking-how-to-get-your-boyfriend-to-spank-you" target="_blank">How to Get Your Boyfriend to Spank You</a></p>
<h4>Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics &amp; Humor</h4>
<p><a href="http://beckandherkinks.com/2013/07/25/rabbit-vibrators-how-to-measure-for-fitting/" target="_blank">Rabbit Vibrators: How to measure for fitting</a><br />
<a href="http://sherisavill.com/acting/" target="_blank">Acting! Thank You!</a><br />
<a href="http://dumbdomme.com/2013/08/titty-fucking-anal-sex-conversation.html" target="_blank">TItty Fucking</a><br />
<a href="http://dianekepler.wordpress.com/2013/07/11/whats-wrong-with-sexy-scientists/" target="_blank">What&#8217;s Wrong With Sexy Scientists?</a></p>
<h4>Erotic Non-Fiction</h4>
<p><a href="http://thesindoll.com/2013/07/keep-me-nasty/" target="_blank">Keep Me Nasty</a><br />
<a href="http://aslutsmemoir.com/2013/07/no-safewords.html" target="_blank">No Safewords</a><br />
<a href="http://cammiesonthefloor.blogspot.com/2013/07/being-on-ropes.html" target="_blank">Being on the Ropes</a><br />
<a href="http://filledandfooled.wordpress.com/2013/07/17/the-lead-up/" target="_blank">The Lead Up</a><br />
<a href="http://thoughtsofagrowingsub.com/my-birthday-spankings-2013/" target="_blank">My Birthday Spankings#<wbr />BirthdaySpankingsforRei</a><br />
<a href="http://kaylalords.com/2013/07/more-like-an-earthquake/" target="_blank">More Like An Earthquake</a><br />
<a href="http://poeticdesires.com/2013/07/lessons/" target="_blank">Lessons</a><br />
<a href="http://mydissolutelife.com/2013/07/stag-at-a-sex-party-part-1/" target="_blank">Stag at a sex party</a><br />
<a href="http://beingblacksilk.com/2013/07/14/a-fan-of-fans/" target="_blank">A Fan of Fans</a><br />
<a href="http://wholesexlife.com/2013/07/let-the-rain-come/" target="_blank">Let the rain come</a><br />
<a href="http://glimpsesofdave.blogspot.com/2013/07/gangbang-club.html" target="_blank">Gangbang Club</a><br />
<a href="http://www.ownedcollaredloved.com/the-polka-dot-dress/" target="_blank">The Polka-Dot Dress</a><br />
<a href="http://kinkybikermom.com/dinner-for-two/" target="_blank">Dinner for Two</a></p>
<h4>Erotic Fiction</h4>
<p><a href="http://www.johndstories.co.uk/fff-the-not-so-innocent/" target="_blank">The (Not So) Innocent</a><br />
<a href="http://thehonestandforbiden.blog.com/erotica-bdsm-warning/">Master&#8217;s Bad Day</a><br />
<a href="http://mysticsmindfuck.com/2013/08/when-she-comes.html" target="_blank">When She Comes</a><br />
<a href="http://deepthought69.blogspot.com/2013/07/summer-storm.html" target="_blank">Summer Storm</a><br />
<a href="http://phlye.wordpress.com/2013/08/04/lolita-twenty-thirteen/" target="_blank">Lolita Twenty-Thirteen, Part Seven</a><br />
<a href="http://offgothepanties.com/2013/08/07/eight-ball/" target="_blank">Eight Ball</a><br />
<a href="http://fantasyforthekinky.kinky-blogging.com/2013/08/01/a-hole-in-the-pack/">A Hole in the Pack</a></p>
<h4>Thoughts &amp; Advice on Sex &amp; Relationships</h4>
<p><a href="http://www.insatiabledesire.com/2013/07/19/he-hears-me/" target="_blank">He hears me.</a><br />
<a href="http://thecunninglinctus.blogspot.com.au/2013/07/why-doesnt-she-respond-to-cunnilingus.html" target="_blank">Why Doesn&#8217;t She Respond to Cunnilingus?</a><br />
<a href="http://sexylittleideas.com/i-dont-rape/" target="_blank">I Don&#8217;t Rape.</a><br />
<a href="http://perverticallyvirtuous.com/2013/07/25/5-reasons-why-straight-men-fear-mfm-threesomes/" target="_blank">5 Reasons Straight Men Fear MFM Threesomes</a><br />
<a href="http://heelsnstocking.blogspot.com/2013/07/cap-dagde-swinging.html" target="_blank">Cap D&#8217;Adge and swinging</a><br />
<a href="http://malflic.com/2013/07/boys-and-their-toys/" target="_blank">Boys &amp; Their Toys</a><br />
<a href="http://ltasex.info/home/anal-sex-is-fucking-awesome/2013/8/6" target="_blank">Anal Sex is Motherf***ing Awesome</a><br />
<a href="http://geekynymph.com/words-of-wisdom/" target="_blank">Words of Wisdom</a><br />
<a href="http://mollysdailykiss.com/2013/08/04/seeing-red/">Seeing Red</a></p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Some intriguing free eBooks on the list this week. Like the idea of being bought low by an Alpha male? Oh, ho-ho. Stainless steel toys your thing? Do read on … &#160; EBOOKS *The following books were listed as free at the time of this post’s publication. Please double-check that that’s still the case before&#8230; <a href="/2013/07/12/freebies-and-discounts-vampire-erotic-theatre-stainless-steel-wax-and-ladies-bought-low/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Some intriguing free eBooks on the list this week. Like the idea of being bought low by an Alpha male? Oh, ho-ho. Stainless steel toys your thing? Do read on …</p>
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<h3><span style="color: #b21f3b;"><b>EBOOKS</b></span></h3>
<p>*The following books were listed as free at the time of this post’s publication. Please double-check that that’s still the case before you hit the download button.</p>
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<p><strong><i>The Lady Submits</i> – Chloe Cox</strong></p>
<p><a href="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.48.51.png"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-5862" alt="The Lady Submits" src="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.48.51.png" width="211" height="318" /></a></p>
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<li><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" title="The Lady Submits" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Submits-Romance-Novelette-Bacchanal-ebook/dp/B008G093ZO/ref=sr_1_9?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1373625917&amp;sr=1-9&amp;keywords=free+kindle+books+erotica" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kindle – Amazon.co.uk</a></li>
<li><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" title="The Lady Submits" href="http://www.amazon.com/Submits-Romance-Novelette-Bacchanal-ebook/dp/B008G093ZO/ref=sr_1_9?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1373625917&amp;sr=1-9&amp;keywords=free+kindle+books+erotica" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kindle – Amazon.com</a></li>
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<p>Loving the premise of this one. (The warning is more of an incitement to read, as far as I’m concerned!)</p>
<p><i>‘Sometimes a highborn Lady needs to be brought low&#8230;</i></p>
<p><i>It&#8217;s the decadent, raunchy holiday of Bacchanal, and the Lady Lucrezia Grimaldi cannot find a man to satisfy her. Worse, she&#8217;s been saddled with the brutish Carlo Castellan as her bodyguard for the last night of Bacchanal. There&#8217;s only one thing to do: escape to the fabled House of the Severille&#8230;</i></p>
<p><i>The imperious Lady Lucrezia expects to sate herself by dominating some poor house slave. What she gets instead is the harsh touch of a Severille Master who will stop at nothing to make the Lady submit.</i><i> </i></p>
<p><i>The Lady Submits is a 12,000 word erotic historical fantasy novelette featuring strong BDSM themes. If you don&#8217;t like bondage, leashes, public display and humiliation, or alpha male doms who brook no dissent, then this probably isn&#8217;t for you.’<span id="more-5860"></span></i></p>
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<p><strong><i>Strangeville</i> – Kenneth Tingle</strong></p>
<p><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" href="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.43.03.png"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-5861" alt="Strangeville " src="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.43.03.png" width="214" height="324" /></a></p>
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<li><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" title="Strangeville" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Strangeville-ebook/dp/B00B45520S/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1373625149&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kindle – Amazon.co.uk</a></li>
<li><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" title="Strangeville" href="http://www.amazon.com/Strangeville-ebook/dp/B00B45520S/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&amp;ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1373625149&amp;sr=1-1" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kindle – Amazon.com</a></li>
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<p>This one sounds extremely odd, but thoroughly intriguing.</p>
<p><i>‘Need a good laugh? Strangeville is a different kind of story that draws the reader in and keeps them wondering what will happen next. The story is a dark comedy about a suicidal young man named John Campbell who, after a failed suicide attempt, heads to Virginia to visit an aunt he hasn’t seen in ten years. But his rental car runs out of gas deep in the mountains. When he decides to walk in the middle of the night, he winds up in a town that is isolated from the rest of the world—Strangeville. Unable to leave, he meets an assortment of loveable oddball characters—the beautiful Delilah, Klemm Johnson, Clarissa Puddworthy, Biff Flannigan, Jeboriah Varmint, Cleetus McChoparooski, and others. </i></p>
<p><i>So if you want a different kind of reading experience, and you’re tired of the same old cookie-cutter writing, check out Strangeville . Readers love it!’</i></p>
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<p><strong><i>Covet</i> <i>(Vampire Erotic Theatre Romance Series #1) – </i>Felicity Heaton</strong></p>
<p><a href="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.58.28.png"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-5863" alt="Covet" src="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-shot-2013-07-12-at-11.58.28.png" width="203" height="315" /></a></p>
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<li><a style="font-size: 13px; line-height: 19px;" title="Covet" href="http://www.kobobooks.com/ebook/Covet-Vampire-Erotic-Theatre-Romance/book-XHttNdCXOUGCdakoBXNCgw/page1.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ePub – Kobo </a></li>
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<p>This could go either way – really good, or really awful. The star rating on Kobo seems decent, though, so I’ve got my fingers crossed for the former. And who could possibly resist the idea of ‘vampire erotic theatre’?)</p>
<p><i> ‘They’ve burned for each other for two years, the forbidden attraction between them growing each night. Now resisting the sinful desires of their hearts is becoming impossible.</i></p>
<p><i>Javier knows better than to succumb to his hunger for Lilah. The mortal female belongs to a powerful aristocrat patron of Vampirerotique, the theatre he runs with three other vampires. A single touch is all it would take to break the sacred law of his kind, sentencing himself to death, but his passion for her has become too fierce to ignore and he will risk everything to make Lilah his.</i></p>
<p><i>Lilah has fought her desire for Javier since arriving at his theatre as a servant but each glance he has stolen, his eyes promising pleasure that will satisfy her longing for him, has chipped away at her defences and she can no longer deny her need and her forbidden feelings for the powerful vampire male.</i></p>
<p><i> </i><i>When they find themselves alone in a private box during one of the erotic performances, will they surrender to their passion and live out their wildest fantasies in a night of wicked pleasure or will the threat of Lilah’s master keep them apart forever?’</i></p>
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<h3><span style="color: #b21f3b;"><b>TOYS</b></span></h3>
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Are offering up to 50% off selected items, including vibrators, dildos and plugs. Like the full feeling? They’ve reduced the <a title="Sportsheets Menage a Trois dildo set" href="http://www.ohtique.com/explore/sale/sportsheets-menage-a-trois-harness-dildo-set.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Sportsheets Menage a Trois harness and dildo set</a> from £49.99 to £35.99. A fan of stainless steel toys? The <a title="Metal Worx Luv Plug" href="http://www.ohtique.com/explore/sale/metal-worx-luv-plug.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Metal Worx Luv Plug</a> is a smidge under half-price at just £24.00.</p>
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<p><a title="Lovehoney" href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><strong>Lovehoney</strong></a><br />
The Lovehoney crew are having a warehouse clearance sale and are offering up to 75% off selected toys and lingerie, including <a title="Soft Line Flower Girdle Garter Knickers" href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24851" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Soft Line Flower Girdle Garter Knickers</a> (reduced from £14.99 to £9.00), the <a title="Rocks-Off Finger Tingles clitoral vibrator" href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16562" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Rocks-Off Finger Tingles clitoral vibrator</a> (reduced from £16.99 to £8.50), and the <a title="Jimmyjane Afterglow Massage Candle - Grapefruit" href="http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=23119" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Jimmyjane Afterglow massage candle in Grapefruit</a> (reduced from £19.99 to £15.00).</p>
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<p><a title="SexShop365" href="http://www.sexshop365.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"><strong>SexShop365</strong></a><br />
Are offering 5% off orders placed with them this week. Use the discount code ‘shiny5’ at checkout. More details <a title="SexShop365 homepage sale details" href="http://www.sexshop365.co.uk/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">here</a>.</p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today’s Alert Me, themed BDSM implements, a totally groovy granny, and some very interesting cake decorations …</p>
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<p><em><a title="io9 - Star Wars BDSM toys" href="http://io9.com/star-wars-bdsm-toys-from-a-kinky-galaxy-far-far-away-483305354" target="_blank"><strong>Star Wars BDSM toys from a kinky galaxy far, far away</strong></a></em><br />
<strong>Source:</strong> <a title="io9.com" href="http://io9.com" target="_blank">io9.com</a></p>
<p>Attention kinky sci-fi fans! Tying up getting a bit terrestrial? Need some fantasy to go with your fetish? Well, go and check out <a title="Geek Kink" href="http://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/GeekKink?ref=seller_info" target="_blank">Geek Kink’s</a> incredibly interesting little shop on Etsy. <a title="Sith Paddle" href="http://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/121978652/star-wars-imperial-sith-inspired-bdsm?ref=shop_home_active" target="_blank">Sith-inspired paddles</a>. <a title="Darth Vader Lightsabre flogger" href="http://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/129593163/star-wars-darth-vader-lightsaber?ref=shop_home_active" target="_blank">Darth Vader lightsabre floggers</a> … Everything you need, really, to go to the Dark Side. No Princess Leia in chains though; you may have to supply her yourself. And if Star Wars isn’t your bag, panic not. You can always go for a <a title="Super Mario cane" href="http://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/108716886/super-mario-piranha-plant-crop-cane?ref=shop_home_active" target="_blank">Super Mario cane</a> or a <a title="My Little Pony Paddle" href="http://www.etsy.com/uk/listing/118329119/fluttershy-my-little-pony-inspired-bdsm?ref=shop_home_active" target="_blank">My Little Pony paddle</a> (!).</p>
<p>NB: ten points to Geek Kink for his shop tag line: &#8216;These are the toys you&#8217;re looking for&#8217;.</p>
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<p><a title="The Oldest Romance Writer" href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/lifestyle/news/article.cfm?c_id=6&amp;objectid=10880870" target="_blank"><em><strong>The oldest romance writer in the world</strong></em></a><br />
Source: <a title="New Zealand Herald" href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz" target="_blank">The New Zealand Herald</a></p>
<p>I really enjoyed reading this article about 105-year-old Ida Pollock who is, apparently, the oldest living romance writer in the world. Go her. But the thing I liked even more? The accompanying YouTube clip. Cracked me up no end. There’s an incredibly entertaining discourse about the merits of French, Austrian and English heroes. And very emphatic use of the word ‘What?!’ by Ida every so often. Sweet and hilarious all at the same time.</p>
<div class="flex-video widescreen vimeo"><iframe width="770" height="433" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/rkgCPE3xeW8?feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe></div>
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<p><em><a title="Sex Toy Birthday Cake" href="http://uk.eonline.com/news/413440/james-franco-gets-sex-toy-birthday-cake-and-an-award-at-miami-lgbt-film-festival" target="_blank"><strong>James Franco Gets Sex-Toy Birthday Cake and an Award at Miami LGBT Film Festival</strong></a></em><br />
<strong>Source:</strong> <a title="E! Online U.K." href="http://uk.eonline.com" target="_blank">E! Online U.K.</a></p>
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<blockquote><p>‘I’d like a piece with the ball gag on it, please.’</p></blockquote>
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<p>A strap-on. A ball gag. Anal beads. A flogger. Nope, I’m not talking about sex toys (well, not real ones) but the decorations on actor James Franco’s birthday cake. The sort that aren’t likely available in the baking aisle at Sainsbury’s. You can just imagine everyone eating a slice of this beauty after the candles have been blown out, can’t you? (‘Try the strap-on. It’s delicious!’) I&#8217;m not sure I&#8217;d be able to get my head around eating anal beads, though – even if they were made of sugar! :-/</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: Spanktastic Author: Sadey Quinn Publisher: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (20 June 2012) ISBN: 978-1475054675 Reviewer: Jane You know how you’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover? Well, I took one look at Spanktastic and totally (totally) did. Oh, my, is it hot. But do you know what’s even better? The inside. Because&#8230; <a href="/2013/02/13/spanktastic-sadey-quinn/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-4387" alt="Spanktastic - Sadey Quinn" src="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Screen-shot-2013-02-13-at-12.24.49.png" width="200" height="300" /></a>Title:</strong> <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a><br />
<strong>Author:</strong> Sadey Quinn<br />
<strong>Publisher:</strong> CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform (20 June 2012)<br />
<strong>ISBN:</strong> 978-1475054675<br />
<strong>Reviewer:</strong> Jane</p>
<p>You know how you’re not supposed to judge a book by its cover? Well, I took one look at <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a> and totally (totally)<i> </i>did.</p>
<p>Oh, my, is it hot.</p>
<p>But do you know what’s even better? The inside. Because does <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a><i> </i>ever live up to its super-seductive exterior. In fact, I’d go so far as to say it surpasses it – and a barebottomed red-head draped over a velvet chair is pretty hard to top, in my opinion!</p>
<p>This book is an absolute feast for spanking gluttons. Twenty-two luscious stories, in which different women have their bottoms turned a delightful shade of pink by the various inhabitants of fictional town, Rock Creek – a BDSM-friendly community whose residents are free to indulge their fetishes behind closed doors or in front of them. (I should point out here that whilst <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a><i> </i>is a collection of shorts, they’re all linked together by this common setting and, thus, intertwine to create an anthology with a ‘novelesque’ feel. So even if you’re not generally keen on short-form erotica, <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a><i> </i>may just appeal to you.)<span id="more-4386"></span></p>
<p>The stories are all delightfully different – with twenty-two in total, I was a bit worried that they might be a bit ‘samey’ – but, no. Author Sadey Quinn does a brilliant job of keeping the scenarios varied, interesting and – most importantly! – hot.</p>
<p>F/f, M/ff, FM/f, F/ff, M/f &#8230; Voyeurism, exhibitionism, medical, humiliation … And that’s just for starters. I’m struggling to think of types of play that <i>aren’t </i>included in <a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a>. Yet all are handled with finesse, and even the scenarios that wouldn’t normally push my buttons, well, did.</p>
<p>My personal favourites?</p>
<p><i>The Sadists</i>, in which a sub by the name of Fern has the misfortune – or should that be pleasure? – of being sent by her Master to serve two sadistic Tops …</p>
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<blockquote><p>‘When they paused once more, Mistress Natasha walked around Fern and stood right in front of her. Their eyes were only inches apart, and Fern shuddered when she saw the expression on the Mistress’ face.<br />
“Don’t you know, Fern,” she said icily, “that I haven’t got an ounce of pity in my body?”’</p></blockquote>
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<p>… and <i>Cleaning for Master Holden</i>.<i> </i>Woe betide any girl who leaves dust bunnies beneath the bed at number Forty-five, Harper Hills:</p>
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<blockquote><p>‘“Come here,” he says.<br />
Joanne walks to him and stands in front of his desk. He holds out his white gloved hand for her to see. To her horror, it is nearly covered in a very thin, yet obvious, layer of dust.<br />
“What is this?” he asks. The edges of his lips are curled in a very small and evil smile.<br />
“It’s … dust, sir,” she says.’</p></blockquote>
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<p><i><a title="Spanktastic - Kindle" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Spanktastic-ebook/dp/B006HW4DOY" target="_blank"><i>Spanktastic</i></a> </i>it really is. If you’re a fan of The English Vice, you won’t want to miss this one.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Title: Confessions Collection Vol. 1 (London Brown) Author: Leila DeSint Publisher: New Dawning International Bookfair (11 November 2012) ISBN: 9781301363438 Reviewer: Michael Confessions Collection Vol. 1 was one of those books that took me a bit longer to read than usual because I had a hard time figuring out what was going on at first. London&#8230; <a href="/2013/02/07/confessions-collection-volume-1-london-brown-leila-desint/">Continue reading <span class="meta-nav">&#8594;</span></a></p>
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				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><b><a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Confessions-Collection-London-Brown-ebook/dp/B00A5V6F80" target="_blank"><img class="alignleft  wp-image-4186" title="Confessions Collection Vol. 1 - Leila DeSint" alt="" src="/chintzcurtain/wp-content/uploads/2013/02/Screen-shot-2013-02-06-at-10.28.10.png" width="223" height="336" /></a>Title:</b> <i><a title="Confessions Collection Vol. 1 - Amazon U.K." href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Confessions-Collection-London-Brown-ebook/dp/B00A5V6F80" target="_blank">Confessions Collection Vol. 1 (London Brown)</a></i><br />
<b>Author:</b> <a title="Leila DeSint - Amazon U.K." href="http://www.amazon.com/Leila-DeSint/e/B007WZPGT6/ref=ntt_athr_dp_pel_1" target="_blank">Leila DeSint</a><br />
<b>Publisher:</b> New Dawning International Bookfair (11 November 2012)<br />
<b>ISBN:</b> 9781301363438<br />
<b>Reviewer:</b> Michael</p>
<p><a title="Confessions Collection Vol. 1 - Leila DeSint" href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Confessions-Collection-London-Brown-ebook/dp/B00A5V6F80" target="_blank"><i>Confessions Collection Vol. 1</i></a> was one of those books that took me a bit longer to read than usual because I had a hard time figuring out what was going on at first.</p>
<p>London Brown, Caden Jacob Carrington the Fifth, Rhys Christos Edward Stowell, and Desniah Williams. From an outsider perspective, these are four of the youngest and most powerful people in British society. But the insider perspective is very different.</p>
<p>When Desniah is discovered as little girl, she can only say one word: London. Eventually, she’s adopted, but at the age of nine, something happens that turns her world upside down yet again.</p>
<p>The main thing I didn’t understand was the relationship between Desniah and London. I didn’t think they actually had one. I thought London was just the name that Desniah used when she was working as a call girl. But that isn’t true at all. Desniah and London are two entirely separate people. London is aware of everything that happens to them both but Desniah is not. In many ways, London does look out for her ‘other’ personality – but not in all ways.<span id="more-4183"></span></p>
<p>London has a strong self-preservation instinct and she’ll act to defend herself when she feels threatened. And the person who most scares her is Rhys.</p>
<p>Both Rhys and Caden are firmly attracted to Desniah.</p>
<p>Caden is willing to accept London as a substitute. Rhys is not.</p>
<p>Desniah is attracted to Rhys and repelled by Caden but thinks she has a future with neither.</p>
<p>If there is a good way out of this, I don’t yet see what it is.</p>
<p>Very cerebral. I liked it, but wasn&#8217;t particularly engaged by the play scenes.</p>
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<p><strong>Editor’s note:</strong> <a title="Confessions Collection Vol. 1 - Leila DeSint" href="http://amzn.to/WtPdOb" target="_blank"><i>Confessions Collection Vol. 1 (London Brown)</i></a> is an erotica – and a dark one at that – but it isn’t a ménage despite the number of protagonists. Those who are sensitive to reading about scenes of abuse should proceed with caution.</p>
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