Comments on: Edges, Limits and Boundaries https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=edges-limits-boundaries Erotic writing, toys, and a little bit of kink. Come and find out what we’re doing behind the drapes ... Wed, 25 Jun 2014 19:23:23 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.9.1 By: e[Lust] #59 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-57335 Sat, 21 Jun 2014 14:00:43 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-57335 […] The Waters of BDSM Kink’s transgressions: breaking the rules Edges, Limits and Boundaries Feminist Beliefs vs Bedroom Preferences—help! No Stupid (Kink) Questions: Identification CollarMe […]

]]> By: CavSupernova https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-57203 Wed, 18 Jun 2014 08:36:47 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-57203 Fascinating post full of nuance – and yep, that excerpt from the novel was superhot!

]]> By: John https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-56598 Fri, 06 Jun 2014 18:29:21 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-56598 I have a couple of seriously hard limits and a handful of moderately hard: that is, stuff that doesn’t interest me but I know I would be persuaded to try it for my wife if she wanted. Things like crossdressing, CBT and scat, for example.

Sometimes, I find that I am in the mood to just fall and experiment and am desperate for my limits to be pushed and played with. Other times, I am happy to take a beating, but wouldn’t face having ladies knickers or pegs anywhere near my thighs.

Great post!

]]> By: Molly https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-56177 Thu, 29 May 2014 22:02:08 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-56177 I think it is all about context. For a long time I didn’t think needle play was a thing for me and then I read about a scene on someone else’s blog and saw the pictures that went with it, in particular the marks it left afterwards (yes, I am a ‘marks’ slut) and suddenly it was seriously HOT to me. I have wanted to try it ever since.

I think one of the things I love about kink, my kink and our kink is how it is constantly evolving, we are always learning and discovering. There is a much joy to be had in that

Mollyxxx

]]> By: Jane https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-56019 Tue, 27 May 2014 07:06:14 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-56019 Why, thank you! :-) Fluidity is definitely the right word. I look at where I started, where I’ve been, and where I’m going with regard to my sexual life and there is quite a trajectory. I’m going to stick my neck out and say the core of who and what we are doesn’t really change (I’ve always been ‘kinky’, although I didn’t identify what I liked and enjoyed as kink when I was younger) but the experiences we choose to have are often very, very different depending on the phase of life we are in, how we are feeling, and who we are with. The one thing I’ve learned? Never say never! Jane xxx

]]> By: f dot leonora https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2014/05/27/edges-limits-boundaries/#comment-56010 Tue, 27 May 2014 00:34:53 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/?p=6950#comment-56010 i love how fluid this piece is, showing how hard limits might not be as hard as you make them. tastes change or might be reconsidered, simply because desire is fluid…bravo!

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