Comments on: Kink of the Week: Tonight, I’m going to be … https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be Erotic writing, toys, and a little bit of kink. Come and find out what we’re doing behind the drapes ... Fri, 18 Jul 2014 04:05:25 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.9.1 By: KaziG https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19789 Wed, 01 May 2013 02:17:16 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19789 Great points! While I enjoy acting, I prefer predefined roles to improv, so I totally empathise.

~Kazi xxx

]]> By: Marie Rebelle https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19581 Sun, 28 Apr 2013 10:07:15 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19581 Talking about the impact class with the small roleplay element immediately had me thinking about my bachelor studies and communication classes, where I always clammed up with simple communication roleplay elements. I hated those. I never knew what to say, what to do. Oh no, roleplay is not for me at all.

Great clear piece of writing :)

Rebel xox

]]> By: Bunny https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19554 Sun, 28 Apr 2013 04:38:14 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19554 Being happy being you with a person you enjoy is the ultimate in good sex. RP is just a fun situation on occasion for me but when my other half and I connect on a level as we are that is most satisfying of all.

]]> By: Jade https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19553 Sun, 28 Apr 2013 04:25:07 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19553 ~nodding~ “True” role play, acting out a character in a set scenario, “playacting,” is just so hard for me to get into – as you said, maybe it is about not being willing to let myself be that vulnerable – to be mocked or made to feel silly. The BDSM role I adopt does not feel that way to me though, not even when I call W “Boss” on Sexretary Days. That just feels…like me/us.

]]> By: Thane Flynn https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19500 Sat, 27 Apr 2013 14:27:11 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19500 You summed up quite nicely some of my own feelings about role play. I think I can imagine what people get out of it but the idea of doing it myself just really holds no appeal. I really have a definite preference for the real. Lovely post.

]]> By: Malflic https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/2013/04/25/kink-of-the-week-tonight-im-going-to-be/#comment-19316 Thu, 25 Apr 2013 19:02:23 +0000 https://behindthechintzcurtain.com/chintzcurtain/?p=5126#comment-19316 Fantastic point about D/s not being role play in and of itself! I don’t necessarily play a part it simply is a piece of who I am.

Yet I have done role play but upon a little reflection I’m like a bad action movie star. You can change the clothes, the lines, the scenario, and the person I’m playing with but its still just me doing the same thing in different clothes while someone else imagination gets to play.

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